"I stated clearly my M was over. It wasn't a lie."
What you don't understand is that EVERYONE who comes here says that. Usually they state it as fact, as you have, but again, because this is a M saving site, people assumed that you were trying to save your dying M.
So, with that being said, I suggest you start a new thread with your new frame of mind and that everyone who is willing to help you end your M and give you advice on your new relationship start there. For those who feel like they were "used", then they have the option of not posting.
From the lessons everyone has learned in their bad relationships, you wont' find a better group of individuals who will help you nurture your new life.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.