Ok here we go part two

[MrBond]

I don't think you understand why people are seemingly upset.

I mean, no one will fault you for wanting to be happy. What I think you missed is that many people on here really tried to help you get your M on track and you didn't really seem like you were into it. So they feel like they wasted their time. You started posting a little over 2 weeks ago, yet now you say you have a GF already. Seems pretty fast to go from wanting to save your M to getting into a new relationship.

"Just words people?? Wow I guess!!"

And this comment is just plain rude. That should be applied to YOU. You were just saying words about saving your M while your actions said otherwise. Simple as that.

This site can definitely help you get the relationship you want from a new person. The problem is that you have to be honest about what you want to do. You never did answer if you wanted to save your M or not. You kept saying it was too late, etc. And so everyone tried to encourage you. But you really weren't into it were you? That's fine, but be honest about it.

Your new GF will only benefit IF you learned what DBing was all about. Changing yourself to become a better person. Honesty and trust goes to the top of that list.

Everyone who has tried to help you HAS been honest. And they spent their own time and effort to try and save a M that YOU kept saying you wanted. That's why they are frustrated. If you can't understand that, then you will fail in your new relationship because you won't be able to be completely honest with her. You will say one thing and act another. If you can do it so easily with a bunch of strangers, it will be childs play to do it with someone you just met.