Wow, I can't believe what I am reading........ H thinks I got pregnant with this baby on purpose to keep him, ummmmmmmmm I didn't know he wanted to leave?! And we had bought a new house less than 30 days before I hit pregnant so why would I think he wanted out??

He also says he left because I wasn't a good mom, I was too strict with my older boys but he would never tell me that because it would crush me. But says I am a much better mom now.

Yep, I am crushed. I am a strict parent :-( I wonder what the other "real" reasons he left are??? Since he obviously lied/didn't tell me everything


Me: 35 husband:39
Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage
Twins 5 (boy/girl)
Daughter 3
Affair bomb 2/27/14
He moved in with ow 3/13/14
OW kicked him out 6/15/14
4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction