On the one hand, I just want him to go away and not contact me anymore. It's all too painful. On the other is that ever so small sliver of hope that he will come back and say this has all been a huge mistake - that he is willing to try. At least give us that chance.
I don't think this is abnormal thinking at all. My XW quickly rushed into another relationship and wasted no time marrying the OM. Even after all that she has put me through and is remarried, I guess there will always be some very small sliver of hope. I think alot of us will always want what was....or atleast some of us will.
Has there ever been a sitch on this board where the MLCer rushed into a marriage and then woke up and came back? Doubtful but.....
It's funny, I still have a slight bit of hope, but on the other hand, I don't think I COULD take her back in a million years. Kind of weird.
Tad
Last edited by tadpole1025; 06/10/1406:13 AM.
Currently: M 56 XW 57 Sons 38,33,31,29
The Sitch: Married 26 years EA w/ OM 9/10 Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary) Sep 12/10 She wants D 1/11 W files 5/11 D final 10/11 XW marries OM 6/13
