Hey igit, sorry you are here. I'm not an expert in the A department, but there are people here who will help you, and other threads you should look at and follow advice. Sandi, Starsky, MrBond and others provide great advice. Read some threads and apply to your sitch.
As far as the quote above, don't believe that. It is never too late to be the best person and dad you can be.
me: 45 W:45 M 20 years T 22 years S14, S13, S11, D9 BD 2/28/14 D papers served 3/3/14 I moved out 3/15/14 MC start 4/2/14 I moved in 6/2/14 D suit withdrawn 6/30/14