Honestly Thorn, I wouldn't take it any way. Just take it for what it is. She's a WAW, they make no sense so to try and figure them out is pointless. Just go with it, keep you cool, act as if you are in agreement and act as if you are getting on just fine without her. I KNOW it HURTS like hell but you must my friend. I am glad she contacted you though...I knew she would! Now just use this opportunity to play it cool with her...nonchalant and happy. I know for you it's tough because this was the first time she's contacted you...but...she contacted you didn't she? smile Hold your course my friend!

ME: 43 W:44
M 13 years on 5-5-01
T 18 years
BD 4/27/14
D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date)
WAW moved out 5/12/14
Papers filed 6/27/14
Divorce granted 07/17/14
Our marriage ends 11/17/14