i am mad at myself for biting into this push and pull game XH and Son are playing.. Son was obviously trying to get a reaction from his father by leaving school with me. 4 times he asked if XH had texted me or called the house. XH did not. he didn t look for him. Instead, worked on a fence he is building in his backyard. Son asked me to drive him back at 9;30 pm. He lives in a town 40 min. away from here. 2 days later, i got XH' s version of the week-end . Turns out Son was the drunk one and he is the one who was agressive and OW had to stop Son from going after XH.. I asked Son if it was true and he said yes.. ARRRGGGGG... He said in a decived voice: " it doesn' t matter mom, what happened, happened ". Here i am turning myself upside down to make things right and for what?? Now the arguement is totally ignored and their anger is placed on booze.
I have a job opening at work and offered it to Son. He wants it but wants me to make my schedules around him and XH' s visitations.. Refuse to work week-ends. I said: " sorry, i can' t do that. the opening i have is for receiving trucks on evenings and working week-ends. you would be off 1 week-end on 3. sometimes it would be mine, sometimes,his." He turned it down. Now, he wants to go work for my sister and stay at XH' s place. come down here on week-ends. Life can' t be that bad over there if they keep going back for more.. I am sooooooo fed up of this MLC BS..
