Im going to share something. I left my 1st w for my ex. I was 22 years old. Left her with 2 young sons. My entire pay went to her until 2009. I lived in shame all this time. My sons now 29 & 27 dont want anything to do with me.... I dont blame them...you will wake up many days wondering how the kids are, what they look like, who they look like, how are they doing in school, who they hang with....You wont matter to them... when you get to my age it will matter very much to you...
I too wanted greener pastures..somehow they all dried up after awhile....


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden