I get exceedingly polite and formal e-mails, like you would write to a business acquaintance. Have had several thank yous and sorry. Kind of ridiculous. He absolutely does NOT want to appear to be the 'bad guy' who had the explosion that messed everything up one day. Too late for that...
Me 53, XH 57 M 20 (+1.5) years, no kids BD June '13 H moved out July '13 Confirmed long-suspected PA Feb '14 H filed for D Nov. '14 D March '15