I think to you point it's not about not making the same mistakes. My W is with om. And she us happy. Actually I think he is from this forum. I'm with a gf. And she and I speak the sand ll. We connect in a way W and I never did. W is happy now in a way I never could make her. I'm happy now in a way she couldn't make me. I'm sad because I've lost a friend. A dear close friend but we gave what we could and both moved on to better partners. Ones that understand and can communicate. We had a rocky marriage but two beautiful kids. She is a remarkable woman. And now she is happy. She is fulfilled in a way I could not. The last 72 hrs been invaluable. I have a lot to reflect on. Hopefully this will take me forward in this new R. Thank you all
