I must be nuts to still have hope

[MrBond]

"I think we'll have to agree to disagree here.
There is no malice or spite in my posts."

That is true. However, what you don't seem to understand is that the way we are reading your posts is the way that YOU are communicating. And that is probably the same way that you are communicating with your W. You probably don't realize you're doing it, but it comes off as spiteful. You can either try to understand, be open-minded and maybe change, or continue communicating the same way and nothing will change. That's up to you.