Only we don't have sex now. We have been married 8 months and now haven't had sex in 8 weeks. I know this sounds selfish, but I wish I had done something terrible like cheating on her or lying or being a slob JUST so I could understand why she stopped wanting to have sex-----we have a great physical connection...just not sex. Everything but sex. It breaks my heart. She had sex with lots of other guys before we met, now just not with me? So I keep reading stories about, well, jerks.
OK, maybe I'm over-generalizing your H as a jerk, but still, he was doing something anyone (including himself) knew was wrong. You fix it, take time, and get back to being wanted, only it sounds like you still want him. So I don't get it.
My wife dated jerks. Hell, she married one a long time ago. I'm not a jerk, but she doesn't want me. I'm not a goody-two-shoes either, but I'm dying, I don't know why getting a wedding ring turned me into a glorified roommate. I'm sorry---I know this probably isn't helping you, but I liked reading your story.
Have you read The 5 Love Languages yet?
M:33 W:30 T:10 M:2 B/D: 5/27/14 S: 5/28/14 Wife moved back in 7/18/14
