Understand that as TIME goes by your desire will also change.
This is VERY true, and should really be factored into your decision-making, Grey. On a scale from 1-to-10, with "10" being "Totally Frustrating and Unacceptable!" I would say that 15 years ago, this issue was a "9.5" for me. 10 years ago it was still about a "7".
Now? Probably a "2" or a "3," honestly. With the other challenges and joys in our lives right now from health issues with elderly parents, the birth of grandchildren and everything in-between, the companionship, friendship, respect and loyalty from my wife is more important to me than the sex. She's a wonderful cook, a phenomenal mother to our four children, absolutely DEVOTED to her parents and the strongest woman I know. She's my best friend, and I can't think of anyone I'd rather go thru this stage of my life with, and I'm SO glad I stuck this marriage out thru both our SSM and her affair 7 years ago.
