So I just got a nasty text from H. As you know H will not come to the house when I am home so he would just come when he saw my work car was not there. Well now that it's summer he has to text me to ask if I am working or not.

Well I responded that I was working but the boys wouldn't be home from 530-730 (first day of basketball). I get a text saying how it's unfair that he has to let me know if he picks them up and takes them somewhere. Basically just blaming on me that it's not fair I take them and don't tell him. Yet he will go a week without talking to them or asking about them but now he wants to know where they are. He is just trying to control whatever he can and take his anger out on me I feel like

I just told him I do not make you tell me I ask you nicely to let me know and I said I am not arguing with you. To which he replied he just would like to know. I said okay and that communication was a 2 way street and that I just found out about the basketball practice at 1pm

Not sure what else I could have done. I am sick of him treating me disrespectfully and only talking to me when he needs something and expects an immediate response and it to be exactly what he wants. He can't even say hello or be courteous in talking about the boys


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