Haven't been posting as much because there hasn't been any change in my sitch (no mention from W about moving out, still having good times together [W has been inviting me to meet her out to do stuff that she used to do without me, and we had the neighbors over again yesterday and afterward W gave me a big hug and said how much fun she's been having with me], but also no mention from her of a change of heart or reconciling)...and sometimes I feel like posting too much actually hinders my detachment.

One positive is that our neighborhood friends are clearly welcoming me into the fold and the sense that they're pulling for me is almost palpable!

H: 43
W: 37
M: 11 years
T: 12 years
S: 11
D: 8
ILYBINILWY, "I want to move out" and "I want a divorce": 3/23/14
MC started: 9/22/14
Affair and past infidelity discovered: 9/26/14
Piecing: 10/20/14