choosing door #2 - next part in my journey

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Again, TL, all I can say is "Wow" - you are killin' it!

But I need your help if you care to comment. I just trust your judgement.

Got a missed call on my cell phone last night around 8pm - when I looked it was my H. I listened to his voice mail and all he said was, "Just called to say hi." WTF? Since when? He has never done this. I did not call him back. I don't really want to talk to him - his voice will just set me off. He's leaving in two weeks to visit Spain for a month so I don't know if that has anything to do with it. Get the courtesy call in before he goes??? I don't know if I should call him back.
What for? Thinking I should just let it go until/if he calls again. Feel like I should go completely dark. What do you think?