I've started asking a few questions, but the hardest part that I have is accepting whether or not what she's saying is the truth! I can confirm whether or not a conversation took place on such and such a date from the phone records, but there's no way for me to confirm content. She's been willing to answer questions, but she didn't want to hand over the actual data. She claims that she's more committed to "making things work" than I really think. We're only three days in and I'm just not sure.
For my part, I honestly just want to be done with the affair...but I want her to have a sense of what it's cost me to get to that point. And I just don't know how to help her understand!
