She texted me on her way home and asked me if she hit a curb while driving, that is a joke between us that I always tell her she hit the curb, she says she didnt. I texted her back "lol shut up". When I got home I decided that since she was in a joking mood that I would text her. I said "Im sorry but you looked very sexy". I immediately regretted it. I got no response from her and sat and thought about what a dummy I was all night.
As you know by now, any personal references to W's looks or body or whatever, zip it. When husbands get a positive response from their wives, they want more and more. The true test of a DBer is to be light and breezy. And short!
You'd have left W with a positive impression if you had left it at "lol. shut up"
We've all experienced this at one time in our early DBing. Yep...I've done my share of that crap too. It just comes across as clingy and leering. Not good.
Lesson learned. Dust yourself off and get back to GALing.
