(Did you say "Bacon-wrapped Lobster tails, a clean house AND flowers? It's the Holy Grail.)
So I'm not saying you're doing anything wrong, just that you sound really...enthusiastic! Which is a good thing.
It has been my experience -- and my observation -- that if one were to draw a Venn Diagram, with one circle being "Husbands Who Give Foot Rubs and Clean the House and Do All the Cooking," and the other being "Husbands Who Report Having Great, Frequent Sex" . . . well, there just isn't much of an overlap. Not saying there's not ANY, and not saying that's even FAIR (I curse the SSM gods frequently on this very same subject), but it does seem like the whole "Mr. Nice Guy" thing can be a big attraction-killer, if a man doesn't consciously work on building other attributes to offset it.
