I think we'll have to agree to disagree here.
There is no malice or spite in my posts. I am just stating some facts from both sides. Hoping that someone can relate.

I am not actually placing blame on third parties, merely saying that they haven't helped our situation.

It's a shame that everything has gotten so out of hand in our separation.
I will never try to protect my partner, whoever that may be, from any cause of stress in my life in the future.
I'm sure my wife would have been understanding at the time if she had known everything.

Live and learn. This is a lesson I won't forget.

Suspected EA: Feb 2013
Bomb drop: Mid March 2013
Separation: Mid April 2013
(I fought for marriage)
Filed for Divorce: April 2014
Accidental Exposure of affair: June 2014