GoatGal, the ADD thing is new information since the MC started, so I'd love to get some input. Somehow private messages are disabled for me?
Grey, I'm sorry, my H is not a jerk. He's a charming guy who is easily overwhelmed and prone to hyperfocus. That's how I can still want him. He comes from a family that tends to not "solve" problems so much as exist through them, with mixed results. He's existing through this problem in our marriage by running away from it and avoiding it at all costs, especially since I'm a bit of a bulldog and known for tackling problems rather aggressively. Definitely not the approach called for here and requiring a 180 to a gentler, more patient attitude.
With regards to the sex, he would absolutely complain that he wanted more -- but we have three young kids so between my feeling lonely and the demands the kids placed on us till within the last two years, it was not going to happen as much as he wanted. I can look at your thread but I don't know if I'll have much to offer.
I may be an over-poster, but when I'm out with friends, etc., I need my conversation to not be about H. But if I try to just keep it in, I explode. So I'll try to back things down here till I can detach a little further from where I'm at, but I hope you all will be patient and understand that I'm here so much to avoid spending too much time on my sitch in real life.
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15
