touch and goes? I get those every few weeks myself. It's like they're just checking to see if you're still there. Messes with your head a bit, at least it does mine. I found it easier to detach when they don't contact for sure smile hang in there.

Me - 42
exH - 56
Married 10.5 years
Together 17
bomb dropped 1/6/14
signed papers 2/4/14
H moved out 2/22/14
D final 4/4/14
Dropped the rope 5/17/14
2 cats, 2 dogs