Okay, so let's jump to Tuesday and your scheduled time to talk. I really don't think the sex is the answer here, so that's my input on what not to bring up. To me, the glaring issue is that whenever you attempt to ask for answers, she dismisses you and either deliberately or as a consequence, dismisses your feelings about whatever changes have tilted your world upside down. Is that a fair observation?
My thoughts were be to start with whatever has introduced this change into your life and see where that goes. As a woman, it seems to me as though your sex life is the casualty of whatever is really the issue here.
BTW, if I were in your shoes, I'd be pretty pissed - and if I had to ask for something... anything... to give, it would be to request a reasonable time frame to discuss any elephants in the living room. There's a reason she's avoiding this "conflict".
Again, I seriously doubt it's about the sex.
Betsey
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."
