Glad to see that you have resolved your child custody issues.
As Gabbysmom23 said, I would not think of an R with your W right now.
I would continue to act as if you are going to remain separated.
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans