So I am lead to believe that because I wasn't able to change my job, pull myself out of the red financially and lose 20lbs inside the month I watched my grandfather slowly die, I deserved to be lied to, lied about to her family and our friends to cover up an affair. That started because I failed to make her my priority for a month or two.
I will raise my hand and rectify my faults where I need to. I had hoped that after 5 previously happy years, that she might remember she had more character than this once.
Suspected EA: Feb 2013 Bomb drop: Mid March 2013 Separation: Mid April 2013 (I fought for marriage) Filed for Divorce: April 2014 Accidental Exposure of affair: June 2014