So I am lead to believe that because I wasn't able to change my job, pull myself out of the red financially and lose 20lbs inside the month I watched my grandfather slowly die, I deserved to be lied to, lied about to her family and our friends to cover up an affair. That started because I failed to make her my priority for a month or two.

I will raise my hand and rectify my faults where I need to. I had hoped that after 5 previously happy years, that she might remember she had more character than this once.


Suspected EA: Feb 2013
Bomb drop: Mid March 2013
Separation: Mid April 2013
(I fought for marriage)
Filed for Divorce: April 2014
Accidental Exposure of affair: June 2014