So let me get this straight. She stayed with you through your depression and other issuess while you ignored her, yet you say she doesn't have what it takes to "save a marriage"? Stop blaming her. The only reason why you're upset is because she's taking care of herself for a change and the OM is filling the void that you left. Her staying with you while all you did was think of yourself, was her trying to save the marriage. You just ignored it.
Get real. What do you expect someone to do if you treat them like that? Let's face it...you wouldn't have had your "rude awakening" if she didn't leave you. You would have continued to do what you wanted to do despite how she felt.
You're changing from taking responsibility to blameshifting. In your current attitude you're not going to save your M. If you really think that badly of her despite everything that she did stay with you through, then go ahead and file the paperwork and move on. Don't continue to bash her.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
