"But it did, and it seems that either she hasn't the character needed to save a marriage." "Which I can't work out, as he is nowhere near a suited to her as we are.
"Typical Aries. Will insist the grass is purple and that she isn't wrong."
So let me get this straight. She stayed with you through your depression and other issuess while you ignored her, yet you say she doesn't have what it takes to "save a marriage"? Stop blaming her. The only reason why you're upset is because she's taking care of herself for a change and the OM is filling the void that you left. Her staying with you while all you did was think of yourself, was her trying to save the marriage. You just ignored it.
Get real. What do you expect someone to do if you treat them like that? Let's face it...you wouldn't have had your "rude awakening" if she didn't leave you. You would have continued to do what you wanted to do despite how she felt.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
