you equate the business and personal R as ONE instead of two.
you still have not stood up to him and when you do, you feel good for ohh....say 1 day then it is back to spinning.
you still have not learned that standing up for yourself IS independent of HIM and HIS actions.
you continue to use...DB as a tactic as opposed to "living the changes"
you still ultimately want him back.
MM - I still read every one of your posts. You have not changed much since you have been here.
tactics are not going to get him back and they DEFINATELY will not help YOU become who YOU want to be.
I am not trying to beat up on you, I just wonder if anything that anyone says can really make a difference.
You can lead a horse to water but you cannot make him DRINK.
Stop for a second....
Do you realize that this business (according to your post) is your livelihood. It is how you put food on the table and keep a roof over your end.
I want you to step out of yourself for a sec....
If you saw someone allow someone else to control someone else livelihood - what would you think of that person.
IMO, and it is just that MO.....
I would run to the nearest, nasty, aggressive pit bull lawyer and say the following...
Here is my sitch...
Here is the business details....
Please do EVERYTHING possible to SECURE MY FUTURE. I have put 20 YEARS INTO THIS BUSINESS. I would like to receive my fair share of the business.
Period.
No more f*cking around.
No more...."will he talk to me"..."will he offer me coffee"...no more chasing his arse on any level!
He feels overwhelmed - F*ck'em
He feels tired - F*ck em
He wants company - F*ck em
He wants to be nicey nice - F*ck em
You want to change your sitch?
Change your approach.
This whimpy chit ain't working no more.
Peace Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
