Ok here we go part two

[GoatGal]

"W loves to read everything. Once she does she is an instant expert. After a few ic sessions she's cured. On a path. A better person. A strong person. I however am broken and weak. Everything must be my fault. But she still "loves" and wants to work on marriage. This after receiving a panicked email about how will she live how will she earn a living??? Maybe she could use the masters I paid for. Is it me? Am I being too harsh or does it sound a lot like she might love the paycheck more??
Thoughts?"


cw---This could be how my husband perceives me. And I tell you, it's not how I see it at all. I think it's a personality type. Your wife sounds like me. I'm gonna get out there and learn it and improve and darn it--it's gonna get rectified.
My H is more, "Duck and cover, I'm not gonna win anyway."

Sounds tooooooo familiar...

And this is where it gets hard. Because I definitely see myself in your description of your wife, and it's not pretty.

I could have written that letter to my H and left him behind.
However, he beat me to the punch.