"Man The F*** Up" The Ultimate 180

[RedHawk98]

My wife values people that listen to her.
It was initially our communication that lead to us getting together.
When I became distracted with everything going on, it gave an opening for "Rat Face", as I call him, to manipulate the situation.
I saw the messages between them. Mostly telling her everything she wanted to hear. Validating her every doubt. Running me into the ground.

He villainised me by saying how heir relationship needed to be kept quiet due to possible "physical reprisals" from me.
(I have no history of violence)

Their relationship still remains a secret. My wife hasn't gone public with him to her family and the majority of her friends.

Which to me suggests a lot of shame.