I don't blame her for wanting to leave at all at the time. I was not a happy or strong man at all by that point.
I didn't mean to disregard the books offered. It's just that I know the man I was before I crumbled. I wanted to be that again with some enhancements. Just be the best version of me I could be.
I had fallen a long way. I was once the frontman and manager of a rock band. I was resourceful and could count no one that didn't respect me and think highly of me.
Around the turn of this decade, I lost so much of my personality, I had to find that again.
I also didn't intend to be dismissive of "minor problems". I meant that these were problems that could be resolved with teo people sitting down and talking without the fierce drama and third party interference that was occurring towards the end of our marriage.
Suspected EA: Feb 2013 Bomb drop: Mid March 2013 Separation: Mid April 2013 (I fought for marriage) Filed for Divorce: April 2014 Accidental Exposure of affair: June 2014