"Man The F*** Up" The Ultimate 180

[RedHawk98]

I did read those about 6 months ago, but the person they describe isn't me.

In fact I am sensitive enough to see the feelings and points of my wife.
I just don't let her wayward state affect me emotionally anymore.

When she is prepared to do the deep hard work I have done to be a better person, and put on her big girl pants and do the same, I would love to sit down and talk about reconciling and making each other's lives what they should have been.
Before external crap got in the way.

I'm hoping one of our mutual friends says to her soon,
"So you accused you husband of not being 'a real man', yet you traded him in for someone who's scared of spiders and your husband? Well done!" LOL