They all mess up eventually and realise their mistake. It's really a question of how stubborn they are. I can see in my wife's eyes that she knows she has made a mistake. I can tell when she trieds to talk herself out of any feelings that come back when we spend time together.
Supportive friends encourage our wayward spouses for their own selfish needs. They like the drama of it all. There's the jealousy that drives them.
Just now I can tell a trap has been sprung. One of the friends of the wife's family FB messaged me. Pleading ignorance of our separation. Then claims "Oh I can flirt with you now!"
Gimme a break! How dumb do they think I am?!
Hey I know, be very careful with that flirt!
Funny thing is I really think people on his side are trying to help him get her away from me...they are posting things on line now and saying it's me.
W 53 H 51, S 16, S 21 33 years M 28 DD 3 Feb 11, 2014 S21 and His Fiancée move in with us 8/14 http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...965#Post2477965
