Congrats on the move! I hope you are getting settled in. Who cares what the neighbors think? It's not their life. In regards to your h texting, unless it is really and truly something that requires a response, don't respond. He wants space-give it to him. He wants to find himself-give him time to look in the mirror. He wants to see if the grass is greener-let him go for a walk.
And I have an observation. I am a very logical person so I admit this is truly difficult to wrap my head around. I keep reading these stories where the WAS says something like "I remember the time you didn't make me chicken for dinner and that made me doubt that you ever cared about me." And the WAS thinks this is a defining moment of the relationship. I'm not trying to sound flip, however, I hear countless stories about this one incident that propelled the spouse over the edge.My own h was "traumatized" by the family vacation. Your h was upset about a restaurant choice. I realize it is so much more complicated than that, however this baffles me. I understand we are all different and everyone has a different mental makeup. However, I wonder if someone is truly that fragile, can they ever have a long lasting relationship? Do they harbor these feelings towards everyone after incidents such as ones we have read? I know. I'm trying to rationalize the unexplainable. Just wondered if anyone else thought that too....
K-Girl, I think you are doing great. Focus on you. Give it all up to the universe and you will be great:)
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3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer
