BTW--

I believe one of the many reasons this board is so effective is that it allows all of us to really bare our souls and spill it out, giving and taking criticism and support, without all the normal emotions and constraints that color our real-life interactions.

I was just thinking, cw, that if I'd met you on the street and we got to talking about your marriage, I never would have said 90% of what I did (being "nice", wanting to be "liked", not stepping over my social boundaries),

and you probably wouldn't have listened to a word I said, much less taken it to heart!


Me 54 Him 63
M 23 T 29
0 Kids
Funny Farm of Rescues
12/12 OW--
5/13 ILYBINILWY: A denied
9/13 Proof OW: ENDED
2/14 Got D papers on my BD
I kicked him out for my sanity
9/14 He wants to "talk"?