Somewhere there is a chapter/book/article about new love and enduring love that describes how all those crazy intense feelings you had for your wife in the early days are essentially hormonal, and once you choose to make her your life partner your task is to morph from hormone crazy to nurturing and sustaining a deeper love. That's what's meant by "love is a choice." That's why affairs can be so exhilarating too.
Now that I can wrap my mind around. That I can understand. Thank you for putting like that. Love is a choice when you look at it from this angle.
( for the record. I was always hormonal for my W. That part for me never went away. ;-)
