Ggrass,
My EA was short lived. W had gone into my phone saw the calls and confronted me I backed off after that although my co worker and I are still good friends.

I didn't do the things I did with any expectation. That I can say with a very clear mind. As cadet just pointed out my ll is touch and service ( btw are these bad things. Are they wrong). And I did them constantly and without any demand for acknowledgement. It's only through this forum that at least I can look back and think yes I did do something right