Actually I see this as good first steps in where you need to go.
So if you now know that it wasnt fine - what can you DO about that?
And not just words but ACTIONS.
Good question. It wasn't fine. But for me I was needed. I know that from her writings and her words and her actions that my W doesn't think I'm very intelligent. And to a certain extent she also had EA because she needed someone more on her academic level. So we both strayed for different reasons. How do I show someone that I can have value when you know that they think you're not very smart and mostly talk down to you? Some help please