Cw, my h did most of the things your saying, but in a negative way. He would bring coffee to me in bed and infer I was lazy if I stayed in bed. He shoulded all over me all of the time.
Poke prodded and corrected when I failed to met his standard, one that was so high he couldn't either. He blamed us for the failure not that his demands were to high. I felt set up to fail, hence I dropped the whole lot on the floor, but he was already having an ea, justified by I'm guessing not be pa untill I threw the whole lot out.
He hasn't looked back.
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26