Ok. Lots of reflection I've been told in here that love is a choice. ( still kicking that one around in my heart ). This may be true. But to me it kinda sounds like it reduces the word and concept. I thought love was an unstoppable force that the conscious mind couldn't withstand. A driving emotion. I'm not sure I want it to be simply a choice. When I first met w I know for a fact that it wasn't some logical choice I made. It was a BAM I love this woman. I wanted her time her attention her touch her voice her smile. I didn't look across the room and think "she's nice I think I'll love her". So the concept of chosing love bothers me and I'd like to explore why. I understand the concept of chosing to embrace the feeling but not chosing to have the feeling.
