I have read db and read sandis rules over and over.
Starsky, the proof i have are texts that went back and forth. She left her computer on one day, and the text were emailed to herself. At first, I didnt want to show her but she kept denying the facts. Lied to me over and over about the A. As for her marriage complaints, she says that I lost my ambition in life. Is it valid? Well, I am a working man, and I work everyday to provide for us. We have a small cafe and I poured my heart into it to make it successful. It is successful now. Took a couple of years to have it run on it's own. During that time I focused on the business mainly, but always thought that we were happy. We laughed and did things together. Earlier in our relationship she said she wasn't in love with me because I didn't have a job and wasn't moving ahead in life. Now we have two homes and a successful business and she still gave me the ilybnilwy speech. I did everything for her, always made sure we were secure and safe in life. Helped with house chores, cooked for her, open doors for her, you name it I did it. That's just the person I am. I had a home to come home to. Now I just come to a house. It's so unreal to me. Then when I found out about the affair it just crushed me. I thought I could never forgive, but I find myself so in love with her that I can. But she is not remorseful in anyway. I feel like I'm drowning. As for the A, they both confirmed that it has ended. The OM is married, and what [censored] is that my wife and his wife are best friends.
