Forgiven lazy husband - reconcilliation possible?

[rayzzz]

180 Review!
So I am in step 5" Experiment & Monitor Results"
I have been 180ing by being:
-quiet instead of my normal yappy self
-not telling about my outings
-not asking her about where she has been
-going dim-no contact/text/phone unless its essential for scheduling with kids
-doing stuff without manipulation, grandstanding, ego stroking "hey look who just fixed the sink" ...again just doing it quietly and out of necessity not praise
...
The results (after 3 weeks)
-she has been thinking I am mad at her because I have been quiet the last few weeks...
-she just stopped sharing her outings with me too. and she stopped asking about my outings too?!?! like she is 180ing me. And this is more her character anyways...she is a deep thinker and shares very thoughtfully
Oh well tough beans. Think I just stubbornly persist and see if she breaks
-same with no texting/contact! A couple days after I stopped pursing her she stopped as well. Nada. Feels like she is thrilled I am finally backing off and she doesnt have to waste time with me. so not a text unless its scheduling/kids

I am a little down right now. The fine line here is my 180 is not gifts or romantic gestures but just not being lazy and doing stuff that needs to be done. I mowed the lawn today. normally I would let her know "I did it" like I needed a badge or something, but now I just do stuff without saying a word. Thats what real men do..get er done.

So any thoughts? maybe i just need to keep sticking with it. We move out to our separate homes in 2 weeks....