I wanted to bring this back from your most recent thread:
Originally Posted By: mdu
He is at a concert with his older son to see a band they go together to see every year. When I was pregnant with our D he dedicated a really sweet love song by this band to me. He just txtd me and said "They're playing our song" Then he sent another txt "Its actually the first time I've heard it live in all these times I've seen them play"
H is thinking about YOU! I think you would want to keep the road paved smooth for him to find his way back home. And you cannot rush this vital component in the reconciliation phase otherwise it'll all fall apart fast.
Before you put in the transparency plan in place, I need ask this question: Is there an OW? What's happening with the OW, if there's indeed one?
The answer to that question will aid me (and Puppy aka Starsky) in assisting you with the next steps. Yeah, I'm yanking Puppy to this thread as my tag-team member.
You have a lot of positives going for you and you really need to focus on that instead of engaging in navel gazing.
