Ok here we go

[Maybell]

This is a pretty amazing thread.

CW I'm pretty sure there is a certain defensiveness on my part in the SAHM post. But I think some of it rang true for you and it seems to have rung true for others too and it definitely made me feel better to write it so maybe it wasn't the worst thing in the world.

Goatgal really took what I was getting at and ran with it. And I see similarities between your two situations and mine and that is enormously helpful.

I've tried to say before, and I hope you believe it, only you know what your actual situation is, I'm just responding to what I read, and how it strikes me from my own situation.