Sorry to hear of you story there. I feel for you too. Nothing like a Wayard Spouse can make us tear ourselves apart for the answers. I literally rebuilt myself from the ground up.
Thank you for the advice and believe me, there is absolutely no way I will entertain any talk of the future unless the OW has been kicked to the curb. That and her bitchy jealous friend that validates all of her atrocious behaviour towards me.
Anything I do is a waste of time when they are on the scene. I learned that the hard way.
One day, both of ours will realise they made a very bad decision. Whether they will be able to make ammends by that time still is anybody's guess.
Truth be told, after a year now, I'm tired of her sh*t.
My WS and her OM have these friends out in New Mexico, they are all on their third and fourth marriages. The OM best friend is a woman who married one of these guys and it was her first husband she was like forty something and uuuggglllyyy....that is how my wife described her.
They so support the affair that they attack me! They told my wife I called and harassed them on voice mail...when I told her to ask for the message to be played it had mysteriously been deleted!!
Talk about POS friends!
I keep hoping that one of his friends in Israel mess up and bring up one of his other affairs...
W 53 H 51, S 16, S 21 33 years M 28 DD 3 Feb 11, 2014 S21 and His Fiancée move in with us 8/14 http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...965#Post2477965
