BTW, even though I may seem to be disputing some points I'm really not set on this at all. Just trying to think through from every possible angle. Keep the comments coming! ;-)
M: 42 H: 43 M: 8 years S7 and D4 H has D19 and S25 from previous M Bomb: 3/6/14 OW discovered, EA & PA 1st separation, 10 days, decided to reconcile & moved back in. Fail 2nd separation: 5/1/14