Barrybarn, the point of the in house separation really would not be to aggressively work on the M just yet. It would be to give us both more access to the kids and simplify things for them. Also to give us more opportunity to spend time together since we both recognize that we need some pleasant times together to reconnect. We would specifically NOT be getting into really heavy lifting around the M so I'm really not looking/expecting him to prove that. We need a more positive foundation to build on before we can go there. There's just not enough good will between us and we need opportunity to rebuild it, being physically separated makes it quite tough.
I hope that makes some sense.
M: 42 H: 43 M: 8 years S7 and D4 H has D19 and S25 from previous M Bomb: 3/6/14 OW discovered, EA & PA 1st separation, 10 days, decided to reconcile & moved back in. Fail 2nd separation: 5/1/14
