If after discussing your divorce she sees that you're happy about it, it's going to make her think you don't care at all. I didn't read your first thread, but I saw your post about not getting into arguments. Maybe she thought you wanted to not be married to her. Maybe she only brought up the divorce to see if you cared about her at all. It seems like you've given up. Only 4 months in.
I know this website is all about not pursuing the WAW, but if you never really pursued, or really expressed your feelings, or showed her love, now might be the time. At the very least don't go out and throw a party celebrating that she's gone.
