Did you REALLY read my post to you? I gave you 40 SPECIFIC pieces of advice and you have not mentioned a single part of it.
I know you're hurt but if you can't focus enough to read those^^, you're not going to get anywhere.
Again, look at the "Rules" and finish the book.
Also, surely if your w is in the mental health field she knows there are resources available for her to make use of. She has issues to work on
So do you. Stop living in FEAR and start the "WORK" part of this. That means changing.
Not just saying "I can't do that" or '"I'm not like that"....
if you remain exactly as you are, your dynamic won't change and that means the marriage won't change.
Spouses who have doubts or who want out, only come back IF THEY BELIEVE
the marriage can be different/better, than before. How are you showing her that?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
