Maybell said: "It is an act of trust in the other spouse, making ourselves financially vulnerable on faith that we are working together to build a specific kind of life."

Exactly.

Being vulnerable to someone who isn't exactly putting us first or earning our trust is being stuck between a rock and hard place. I'm not saying you didn't consider her needs, only that she might not have FELT that's what you were doing.

Last edited by GoatGal; 06/08/14 07:08 PM.
Me 54 Him 63
M 23 T 29
0 Kids
Funny Farm of Rescues
12/12 OW--
5/13 ILYBINILWY: A denied
9/13 Proof OW: ENDED
2/14 Got D papers on my BD
I kicked him out for my sanity
9/14 He wants to "talk"?